Let’s get real—being turned on by yourself isn’t just a vibe, it can be a whole identity. Welcome to the world of autosexuality: where self-love meets literal love. From Google trends to identity deep-dives on Instagram and TikTok, “autosexual” is a term gaining real traction. But what does it actually mean?
Autosexuality, Defined
Autosexual describes someone who is primarily or exclusively sexually attracted to themselves. That could mean being aroused by your own body, fantasizing about yourself, or preferring solo pleasure to partnered sex. It's not narcissism—it's about intimacy, control, confidence, and knowing exactly what makes you feel good.
Is Being Autosexual a Real Thing?
Yup, and it’s legit. Just like asexuality, bisexuality, or demisexuality, autosexuality exists on the spectrum of desire. For some, it’s about self-sufficiency—not needing a partner to experience deep satisfaction. For others, it's part of a broader identity of solo sexuality.
Signs You Might Be Autosexual
- You feel aroused by seeing yourself in the mirror or photos
- You fantasize about yourself as the object of desire
- You prefer solo sex or masturbation over partnered play
- You feel most sexually satisfied when alone
- You use self-intimacy as a form of self-love and empowerment
Is Autosexuality the Same as Asexuality?
Good question. While asexuality means little to no sexual attraction to others, autosexuality is specifically about attraction to yourself. Some people are both—called autoromantic asexual—while others identify as autosexual but also enjoy partnered intimacy.
Celebrating Self-Attraction
Here’s the truth: being your own fantasy isn’t weird. It’s powerful. It’s sensual. And it’s completely valid. In a world that constantly pushes romantic pairings as the “goal,” embracing your own sexuality—on your terms—is quietly revolutionary.
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