Shallowing 101: Small Depth, Big Sensation
Shallowing = keeping penetration at the entrance and just a few centimeters in—where nerve endings are dense and sensation pops. Think slow “dip-in, glide-out,” less depth, more tease. Below is your beginner-friendly guide with positioning ideas, pacing tips, and a discreet toy pairing.

What Exactly Is “Shallowing”?
A high-sensation penetration style that focuses stimulation at the vaginal entrance and the first centimeters inside—no deep thrusting. You can use fingers, a toy, a tongue, or a penis; the key is light depth, steady rhythm, and playful pauses.


How to Try It (Beginner Flow)
- Prime the vibe: warm shower, dim lights, favorite playlist (60–90 BPM), and a silky lube.
- Start external: tease thighs, hips, and outer labia; breathe in 4, out 6 to relax.
- Dip, don’t dive: enter just a little—hover around 0.5–2 cm—then glide out.
- Find your loop: build to a 6–7/10, back down to 4–5/10; repeat 3–6 rounds.
- Layer sensation: add clitoral touch/focused suction for amplified edges.
Positions That Shine
- Lazy Lotus: face-to-face, hips close, micro-rocking for minimal depth control.
- Side C-Curve: spooning with a pillow between knees; tiny hip tilts = precision.
- Edge of Bed: receiver at the edge; giver standing—perfect for slow “dip-in” rhythm.
Safety & Comfort
- Use plenty of lube; shallow doesn’t mean dry.
- Pause if you feel numbness or discomfort; change angle or tempo.
- Balance longer edging nights with recovery and hydration.

Soft-Power Pairing:
Want reliable entrance-level stimulation while you keep depth shallow? Try pairing with focused licking + gentle suction for a consistent, tease-heavy rhythm. Meet ViveKisser—designed for precise, kiss-like pulses that make “dip-in, glide-out” effortlessly delicious.
Note: Bodies vary. Explore at your pace, communicate clearly, and check in with comfort throughout.